Category: Jacqueline Winspear

Jacqueline Winspear

[Maisie] “Tell me, Dr. Dene, if you were to name one thing that made the difference between those who get well quickly and those who don’t, what would it be?”[Dr. Dene] “…In my opinion, acceptance has to come first. Some people don’t accept what has happened. They think, ‘Oh, if only I hadn’t…’ or… ‘If only I’d known…’ They are stuck at the point that caused the injury.”…I would say that it’s threefold: One is accepting what has happened. Three is having a picture, an indea of what they will do when they are better or improved. Then in the middle, number two is a path to follow.

Jacqueline Winspear

She closed her eyes, silently continuing the pleas that she be given words that might soothe, words that would begin the healing of bereaved parents. She had seen, when she entered the kitchen, the chasm of sorrow that divided man and wife already, each deep in their own wretched suffering, neither knowing what to say to the other. She knew that to begin to talk about what had happened was a key to acknowledging their loss, and that such acceptance would in turn be a means to enduring the days and months ahead.