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Category: Joyce Maynard

It’s not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can’t tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself.

You just want to give up, he said when he was able to speak. Only you keep going. You still have to get up in the morning and pour the cereal in the bowls. You keep on breathing, whether you want to or not. Nobody’s around to tell you how it’s supposed to work. The usual rules just don’t apply anymore. He was still talking, but she wasn’t even sure if it was to her. When it started, he said, I thought nothing could be worse than those first days. And it wasn’t only us, but everyone else you’d see, wandering around like they’d landed on a whole different planet. Instead of just dealing with your own heart getting ripped into pieces, wherever you looked you knew there were other people dealing with the same thing. You couldn’t even be alone with it. Like you’re out in the ocean and the undertow catches you and you start yelling for help, but then you look around, and all around you in the water for as far as you can see, there’s all these other people flailing too. He sat there for a moment, shaking his head. You keep getting up in the morning and knowing this will continue maybe ten thousand more mornings. You wish you were the one who died. How much better would that be?

A person who deserves my loyalty receives it.

The portrait of my parents is a complicated one, but lovingly drawn.

parents, portrait

I tried to think of what my father would tell me. ‘Don’t let any boy give you shit.’ But he’d never said how we should go about preventing this.

boys, dating, young-girls

There is something about the act of studying an unclothed body, as an artist does, that allows a person to appreciate it as pure form, regardless of the kinds of traits traditionally regarded as imperfections. In a figure drawing class, an obese woman’s folds of flesh take on a kind of beauty. You can look at a man’s shrunken chest or legs or buttocks with tenderness. Age is not ugly, just poignant.

age, art, perception

Ten years from now, her mother might not even recognize her. Already she was different, but the day would come when she’d be this person her mother had never seen. There would be other people – someone like Carolyn or Alan, or even Violet – who had known her longer than her mother ever did.

death, grief, loss, mothers

Wherever it is you make your home, there is always this other place, this other person, calling to you. Come to me. Come back.

Ten years from now, her mother might not even recognize her. Already she was different, but the day would come when she’d be this person her mother had never seen. There would be other people – someone like Carolyn or Alan, or even Violet – who had known her longer than her mother ever did.

death, grief, loss, mothers

Wherever it is you make your home, there is always this other place, this other person, calling to you. Come to me. Come back.