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Rachel Bertsche

Popular culture has made it okay to yell “I want a man!” from the rooftops, so why are we still embarrassed to say, “I want a best friend”?

best-friend, friend

Rachel Bertsche

Sometimes when I see people from high school I feel trapped in a persona I maintained then,’ she says. ‘Ten years have gone by, a dive changed a tremendous amount – both emotionally and in circumstance. So while my oldest relationships are incredibly dear, and it’s true that they know me intimately, it can be freeing to have relationships built on exactly who you are at this moment.

Rachel Bertsche

The decision to move to the second post-college city (or suburb, or town), however, is usually made independent of friends. No matter if you do it for love, career, family, or school, the second move is on your own terms.

friends, post-grad

Rachel Bertsche

Because while we all Facebook stalk, protocol is to not admit it. I might know, from status update, that a potential best friend swims laps every mornings, but it’d be creep to say “Don’t worry about eating that doughnut, you deserve it after all those calories you burn!” Instead, I check out her profile and she reviews mine, but then we meet and pretend to know nothing.

facebook, friends

Rachel Bertsche

The evening makes me think Facebook is a blessing and a curse. Sure, it helps us keep track of people with whom we otherwise would have fallen out of touch. But sometimes relationships fade for a reason. They’re better left a memory.

facebook, friends

Rachel Bertsche

But on a Sunday morning when I want to grab an omelet over girl talk, I’m at a loss. My Chicago friends are the let’s-get-dinner-on-the-books-a-month-in-advance type. We email, trading dates until we find an open calendar slot amidst our tight schedules of workout classes, volunteer obligations (no false pretenses here, the volunteers are my friends, not me, sadly), work events, concert tickets and other dinners scheduled with other girls. I’m looking for someone to invite to watch The Biggest Loser with me at the last minute or to text “pedicure in half an hour?” on a Saturday morning. To me, that’s what BFFs are.

best-friends, friendship, quest

Rachel Bertsche

The decision to move to the second post-college city (or suburb, or town), however, is usually made independent of friends. No matter if you do it for love, career, family, or school, the second move is on your own terms.

friends, post-grad

Rachel Bertsche

Sometimes when I see people from high school I feel trapped in a persona I maintained then,’ she says. ‘Ten years have gone by, a dive changed a tremendous amount – both emotionally and in circumstance. So while my oldest relationships are incredibly dear, and it’s true that they know me intimately, it can be freeing to have relationships built on exactly who you are at this moment.

Rachel Bertsche

The evening makes me think Facebook is a blessing and a curse. Sure, it helps us keep track of people with whom we otherwise would have fallen out of touch. But sometimes relationships fade for a reason. They’re better left a memory.

facebook, friends

Rachel Bertsche

Because while we all Facebook stalk, protocol is to not admit it. I might know, from status update, that a potential best friend swims laps every mornings, but it’d be creep to say “Don’t worry about eating that doughnut, you deserve it after all those calories you burn!” Instead, I check out her profile and she reviews mine, but then we meet and pretend to know nothing.

facebook, friends