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Category: Richard Louv

Mothers tend to be more direct. Fathers talk to other fathers about their kids more metaphorically. It’s a different way of communication.

Way, Mothers, Kids

Leave part of the yard rough. Don’t manicure everything. Small children in particular love to turn over rocks and find bugs, and give them some space to do that. Take your child fishing. Take your child on hikes.

Love, Children, Space

If war occurs, that positive adult contact in every shape is needed more than ever. It will be a matter of emotional life and death. There’s not a handy one-minute way of talking to your kid about war.

Life, Positive, Death

There is a canyon within a reasonable distance of nearly every school in the city,” [Elaine Brooks] pointed out. What an exciting prospect, she said – a network of natural libraries for teaching children about the region’s rare and fragile ecosystems – and about themselves.

library, nature

Unlike television, reading does not swallow the senses or dictate thought. Reading stimulates the ecology of the imagination. Can you remember the wonder you felt when first reading The Jungle Book or Tom Sawyer or Huckleberry Finn? Kipling’s world within a world; Twain’s slow river, the feel of freedom and sand on the secret island, and in the depths of the cave?

books, nature, reading

Joni Mitchell had it right: “They paved paradise / and put up a parking lot.” But perhaps, in the near future, we could add a line of hopeful epilogue to that song: then they tore down the parking lot / and raised up a paradise

nature, paradise, science

A generation of children is not only being raised indoors, but is being confined to even smaller spaces. Jane Clark, a University of Maryland professor of kinesiology . . . calls them “containerized kids”–they spend more and more time in car seats, high chairs, and even baby seats for watching TV. When small children go outside, they’re often placed in containers–strollers–and pushed by walking or jogging parents. . . Most kid-containerizing is done for safety concerns, but the long term health of these children is compromised. (35)

children, confinement, parenting, play, sedentary

Countless communities have virtually outlawed unstructured outdoor nature play, often because of the threat of lawsuits, but also because of a growing obsession with order. Many parents now believe outdoor play is verboten even when it is not; perception is nine-tenths of the law.

coercion, law, nature, parenting, play

The logical extension of synthetic nature is the irrelevance of “true” nature–the certainty that it’s not even worth looking at. (62)

faux-nature, nature, nature-and-beauty, nature-and-man

Nature-deficit disorder describes the human costs of alienation from nature, among them: diminished use of the senses, attention difficulties, and higher rates of physical and emotional illness. This disorder can be detected in individuals, families, and communities.

nature, nature-and-man, nature-deficit-disorder

We have such a brief opportunity to pass on to our children our love for this Earth, and to tell our stories. These are the moments when the world is made whole. In my children’s memories, the adventures we’ve had together in nature will always exist.

life, nature, parenting

If getting our kids out into nature is a search for perfection, or is one more chore, then the belief in perfection and the chore defeats the joy. It’s a good thing to learn more about nature in order to share this knowledge with children; it’s even better if the adult and child learn about nature together. And it’s a lot more fun.

children, nature, perfectionism