Tag: adversaries, perfectionism, perfectly-imperfect, real-world, self-esteem, self-hate, self-hatred, self-judgement, true-self

If we demand perfection from ourselves we are not living in the real world…The inherent problem in the relationship between the ideal & the real is that the ideal judges the real as unacceptable and brings down condemnation and wrath on the real. This sets up an adversarial relationship between the two and like all adversaries, they move further and further apart.