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Tag: love, polyamory, relationships

Anthony Ravenscroft

We are raised to believe (on the surface, at least) that us humans only have so much love to give, and that it comes in a standard round unit: one. After all, we associate love with the heart, and, well, you’ve either got a whole heart, or you’re dead, period. You can’t, common wisdom goes, just run around dividing that one heart up freely; to claim to do so means that you’re either a fool, or you’re dividing up something that is dead.

love, polyamory, relationships

Anthony D. Ravenscroft

So, a little advice. Relax. You’re not filling a job position. You’re looking for a pleasant acquaintance.. who might become a good friend… who turns out to be attractive to your senses… and a rewarding lover… then a committed partner whose heart will not stray. If you don’t see those signposts and in that order, then you’re probably on the wrong road and getting more lost with every step.

love, polyamory, relationships

Anthony D. Ravenscroft

A real relationship doesn’t properly begin until the NRE burns away. That’s when you have to start dealing with this person as an all-around human being, replete with irritating little habits. When disillusion sets in, love can begin.

love, polyamory, relationships

Anthony D. Ravenscroft

Security comes first from inside of you. Then, if you are very lucky, you will be in a position to find other people who also possess that same sort of security, and build some sort of family or community as a team.

love, polyamory, relationships